I ada patient yang minta MC almost every 2 months.
At first I was thinking she simply just want to skip work.
Tapi ada one time tu, dia datang and terus nangis.
So barulah dia cerita, dia sorang yang uruskan anak2 sebab husband kerja jauh, he had to leave home early and came home late. So she was the one yang perlu pick up and send the kids to school plus prepare the food etc.
On top of that, at work, she was given a lot of responsibilities that she felt she couldn't handle it anymore.
She felt burn out but she has no other options.
My other regular patient, I just found out today that her mother was diagnosed with adrenal cancer stage 4 and currently admitted at the hospital.
She wants to be with her mom, but her baby refused anything but direct breastfeeding. So dia rasa bersalah tak dapat nak stay lama with her mother. I could see tears welling up in her eyes as she told the story.
Bila dah kerja for quite some time, asking the same question everyday "Sakit apa hari ini?"
Then dapat pula jawapan yang lebih kurang sama...
You can't help but starting to judge the patients based on the facial expressions, the body language & the number of visits.
Before they even come into the consultation room, kadang-kadang dah assume dia ni nak MC je, bukan sakit pun etc.
That unconscious, judgmental perception of patients unfortunately, affect negatively on how I treat them.
Sampai selalu lupa...
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Memang ada je yang minta MC sebab malas kerja pastu buat2 sakit.
Tu urusan dia dengan Allah. Dah la cuba2 menipu doktor (padahal kita tau je if betul2 sakit or tak), dapat gaji sebab MC konon sakit tu rasa2 berkat ke?
Tapi ada juga nak MC sebab memang mentally drained. Emotionally unstable. Lethargic physically and mentally.
Dia takde sakit batuk selsema, demam ke apa.
Tapi dia just penat with all the burden in life.
So, all that we need is to be kind and not judgmental of others.
كُلُّ مَعْرُوفٍ صَدَقَةٌ
Setiap kebaikan adalah sedekah. (HR al Bukhari & Muslim)
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